So, I wrote a blog post a few days ago about a guy, who shall remain nameless, who hit me up asking to wrestle. It was clear from his message he had not read my profile to even see that i have very clear preferences about guys I like to wrestle. I told him "no thank you, but your not my type" and then I asked him did he even read my profile. The fact I asked him if he read my profile pissed him off. Well, sorry but if you can not even bother to read someone's profile and see they have likes and dislikes then your just a fucking idiot. It is like asking someone on here if they want to wrestle when in their profile name is says something about boxing AND in their profile it says they ONLY want to meet to box. OK, I am not into boxing, and yes some of the guys into boxing I think are really hot, but if someone puts it in their profile they are not into wrestling then I do not waste my time or theirs by asking them about the slight possibility they might want to wrestle. I assume if they want to wrestle at some point in the future they will amend their profile to say they might be interested in trying out some wrestling. That is just how I see this issue.

Look, we all have guys we find interesting, attractive, or who have a reputation where we might want to take them on and see how we would do on the mat. I get it. If someone tells me I am not their type I say thanks and move on. I DO NOT GET BUTT HURT because some guy says he is not into me. I accept we all have guys we wanna pin down and make submit and guys we do not want to touch with a ten foot pole. I am not going to try and sugar coat anything, If you ask if I want to wrestle and you have not read my profile to know what I like a do not like then I am going to assume you have some learning disability. There are thousands of guys on this site, i assume there are plenty of guys for everyone to meet up with and wrestle, the guys I prefer simply are not fat, out of shape, or obese.

Is that so hard to understand?

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Last edited on 2/12/2018 3:17 AM by spladle2submission
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spladle2submission (23 platinum) 7 days ago

Anyone care to guess what the guys who give this post a thumbs down all look like? I wonder if any of them has a fat gut? If any of them know that the inside of a gym looks like and use it regularly? Odds, anyone?

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Darksteel (8 bronze) 7 days ago

It sounds like you’re butt hurt.

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spladle2submission (23 platinum) 7 days ago

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Darksteel...I am not butt hurt, I am honest. But you are one of the type guys who are diving things a thumbs down...another fat bear. My point made.

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surrey71 (27 gold) 7 days ago

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Sorry but that just sounds rude!

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Darksteel (8 bronze) 7 days ago

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Actually I did not vote. Just fixed that

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Spruceman (50 platinum) 6 days ago

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Off topic, DarkSteel; but I like the inkwork on your right arm. If I had the dough, I'd try to outdo Ray Bradbury's "The Illustrated Man."

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spladle2submission (23 platinum) 7 days ago

Surrey71...yes I agree. Rude BUT honest. Honesty seems to upset people more than anything around here. Nothing I said is a lie, it is not exactly politically correct mine you, but it is not a lie. It is all true. I am willing to bet every person who gave it a "thumbs down" is a fat, out of shape bear.

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surrey71 (27 gold) 7 days ago

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Honesty is the better policy but maybe put your thoughts in a way you’re unlikely to offend people?
I haven’t voted and never do - a blog is someone’s own thoughts that they decide to make public, but perhaps the wording in your comments could be better!

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jcripe03 (15) 7 days ago

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I have no beef with your choosing to be honest and picky. I like older (over the age of 40 or so) opponents myself, so if they are younger than that and express an interest, I am likely to turn them down. Just personal preference. Now, having said that, I feel like I need to make a couple other observations. I think rudeness does upset people more than honesty. And outright calling someone fat - which is a relative term - is rude. So is accusing someone who didn't notice the details on your profile of having a "learning disability". That would be like me saying that someone who didn't know that the phrase was "mind you" and not "mine you" has some sort of learning disability.

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Spruceman (50 platinum) 6 days ago

For gawd sakes. It's a wrestling/mma/ other fighting match---not a lifetime marriage. I don't see the need to be real fussy. If yur reasonably HWP in shape, clean, safe, not some asshole and (very important) looking for real action on the mats, I'm likely tangle with you in my matroom, as I have yet to refuse anyone outright.

Doesn't matter if yur gay, straight, a, or post sexual; tall or short; young (legal) or old; race/ethnicity. Your experience doesn't matter either. If yur a newbie, I'll try to train you. If yur better than I am, train me. I'm here for the name of the site – It's MeetFighters–not AvoidFighters.

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WYDude (0 bronze) 4 days ago

Does someone need to go dry his eyes

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