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1/05/2019

Death In the Family- The details


Sorry it took me so long to write this, I'm still trying to process it myself.
Two days before Christmas during my annual Christmas trip to Omaha, Nebraska, word reached us that my mom's second cousin (named Frank) had suffered a heart attack in Germany. He was rushed to the hospital, and put on life support and a medically induced Coma. Now Frank was like a brother to mom, and also like an uncle to me. Even though we only saw each other once a year (at Thanksgiving) that time was so well spent. At around 6pm Central time (1:00am German time) on Christmas Eve, my parents' dog let out a bark and a sad whimper. A few minutes later, we got a text message from Frank's wife saying he had passed away. This put a somber note on Christmas, but we managed to power through it. We have no word yet on the funeral arrangements, but all I can say is that any matches in January will not be happening.
Thank you all for your support.
RJ

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11/29/2018

2020 Relocation- It's On!


Hey guys. For the last 7 years of my life, I have lived in Greendale, Wisconsin, a suburb of Milwaukee. Before that I was born and raised in Omaha, Nebraska. Well, after talking things over with both my husband (Don't let that keep you from meeting up with me btw) and my parents, we have decided that it is time to move back to where I began my journey- Omaha, Nebraska.

Now this move will not be happening until May of 2020, so there is still plenty of time to get matches in next year. Unfortunately, the rest of 2018 is shot, due to preparing for the Christmas trip to Omaha and other commitments. However, my final match of 2018 will take place this upcoming Sunday evening, December 2nd against brownbomber. He and I have had several great matches together, both in Omaha and Milwaukee, but this match will be our final one due to his age. But I'm going off on a tangent.

I'm hoping that despite several trips planned for next year, I can still squeeze a couple matches in down in the Chicago area (including one with my old friend passivemuscle). However, most of my matches will take place in Milwaukee.

Thank you all for your support and I hope to meet up with you soon.
RJ

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11/27/2018

2018-11-28


Ok, now that the medical stuff is behind me....... let's rumble! I have a match set with Brown Bomber set for this upcoming Sunday, December 2nd. That will probably be my final match for 2018, as well as the final match that he and I have together. He was my first jobber from any wrestling personals website, and I will always be grateful to him for all the fun we have had together.

Oh, and also a quick update on the moving situation:
After the trip to Omaha for Christmas this year (December 18-26) my husband and I (don't let that stop you from contacting me, because I don't get any action at home, but that's another story) should be finalizing our plans to relocate to Omaha, Nebraska in Spring of 2020, and because of that, I will be unable to travel next year (except maybe to Northern IL). If you want to meet up, please hit me up and we can look at my vacation schedule for next year and see if we can plan something.

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11/07/2018

Update-11/7/18


I know in my last entry, I said I'd be ready to kick some ass, however, due to self-imposed restrictions, to all you guys outside of the Milwaukee, WI area (i,e northern IL and Madison, WI), I can't travel.So you'd have to make a trip up here. However, guys within a 30 minute drive are fair game!

For the rest of 2018, I will be out of town to visit family during the following dates:
Nov 17-25th (Thanksgiving)
Dec 18-26th (Christmas)
Any time after that, let me know when you'd wanna meet up! Again, thanks for all your prayers and support! They're always appreciated!

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11/01/2018

Medical Update- 11/1/2018


Good news, guys....... CT scan results are in..... all clear! SO now that I'm in the clear......you better be careful because now midwestheel is back and ready to kick ass!

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10/27/2018

Medical Update- 10/27/2018


This is gonna be a very brief update. I originally had a CT scan scheduled for this upcoming Friday, but I managed to get the test moved up to this Tuesday, October 30th. Hopefully the results will be in by Friday then. Keep your thoughts and prayers coming as they are greatly appreciated. Hopefully I will be back in wrestling shape before the end of the year. Stay tuned.

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10/20/2018

10/20/18-Medical Update- A setback


9/09/2018

Relocation Update


A lot's going on, and I just need to blog about this whole relocation as much as possible, so forgive me if I repeat myself.
With only 3 1/2 months left in 2018 there's still time for matches here in Milwaukee. However, due to the medical restrictions, I can not travel down to Chicago, so if any guys want to come meet up with me, it's Milwaukee or bust!
A lot will be going on next year to prepare for the move, even though the actual move won't be happening until April of 2020. As of now, I have only 4 trips planned for next year, 2 to Florida (but I won't be able to wrestle anybody while I'm down there unfortunately) and at least 2 to Omaha (Thanksgiving and Christmas). For any of you Nebraska jobbers out there, just hang tight and I should have more information for you by the middle of next year.

So in short, if you live in Wisconsin, Illinois, Indiana, or Ohio (or even Minnesota) or any other state and would like to visit me in Milwaukee, make your plans ASAP! And if you live in Nebraska or Iowa, WATCH OUT, because Midwestheel is coming home to Nebraska soon!

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9/02/2018

Leaving Milwaukee in 2020


Ok, guys. I haven't said anything until now until I knew it was happening. But I just wanted to inform everyone that in April of 2020, I will be moving from MIlwaukee back to my hometown of Omaha, Nebraska. So if any of you WI/IL guys wanna meet up, we've got the rest of 2018 and all of 2019 to do it. Also if you'd like to visit Milwaukee, you'd better make the plans quick!

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8/18/2018

8/18/18- Medical Update


5/18/2018

Videos


Here's a link to ALL of my videos of me in action, including a couple the site won't take because of certain reasons:
https://www.dropbox.com/sh/oh31eb87jz6y3ti/AAAMnZiK-BUhFXKJH6EUNm95a?dl=0

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4/27/2018

Some of my Power Rangers Fan Fiction


If any of you guys are Power Rangers Fans out there, I have been writing some fan fiction and have developed a story series called Power Rangers: Animarium. Here's the link to the first 5 stories. Please read and comment. I am working on a 6th story right now:

https://www.fanfiction.net/u/2145467/

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3/31/2018

A Sad Day.....


Today marked the end of an era.... after 12 years in business, Babies R Us in Brookfield, Wisconsin closed it's doors for the last time. There were a lot of tears shed and lots of hugs to go around. Now I get all of April off before I start at Buy Buy Baby on May 1st. However, I will be taking a vacation from April 13-23rd to rest and re-charge. If you're interested in meeting up before or after then, hit me up!

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3/23/2018

A New Door Opens!


Well, it's now official. I have been offered a front end position at Buy Buy Baby starting May 1st! Thanks everyone for your words of support!

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3/16/2018

Future Uncertain......


As many of you have heard by now, Toys R Us has decided to wind down its operations in the U.S. While my store was on the list of the original 180 Closures announced in January, it now has been confirmed that ALL 800+ US stores will be closing. Unfortunately, this announcement derailed my initial plans for my future. My current store will be closing on March 31st, the day before Easter. This means a job hunt will soon begin for me.

As far as what this means for me wrestling wise, I haven't decided yet.

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3/11/2018

New Video


Check out my latest video of me squeezing the life out of Superhero_wrestler from this past Thursday , March 8th:
https://www.dropbox.com/s/baoc0rdubsk5xnf/boywonderscissors3818.mp4?dl=0
He and I have known each other for several years.... we just don't have the time to meet up like we used to!

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2018-02-12


Just an update on my previous post:
While we still don't have a firm date for my store's closure, a letter recently sent out to all of our store team has listed the store's closing date (and our termination) at April 16th. There is still so much to do between now and then.
With regards to my wrestling, I am still limiting myself to wrestling in the Milwaukee area indefinitely.
I don't yet know what the future holds for me, whether it's going to another store within the company or starting a whole new career somewhere else. Only time will tell.

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1/24/2018

One Door Closes.............


As many of you have probably already heard by now, Toys R Us has decided to close 182 of it's US Toys R Us and Babies R Us locations. Well I was just informed last night (and it was confirmed this morning) that my store is one of the ones on the chopping block. I won't say which one it is (unless you ask me in a private message) but this affects quite a few aspects of my life, including my wrestling. So, effective immediately, I will be limiting myself to the Milwaukee area and holding off on ALL Chicago area wrestling until I find a new store to work at. I know this is a blow to all my Chicago area friends, but right now, until I get to my new store, my wrestling will be limited to the Milwaukee area.
Thanks for understanding.

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1/18/2018

2018 NYC trip cancelled


Well, guys, as much as I hate to do this, my planned trip to NYC for May of this year has been cancelled. We had a $4,000 plumbing repair bill happen, plus my hours at work are being cut, so I can't make it. I apologize to anybody I had made plans with, but this stuff happens. And regrettably, I don't know when I will be returning to NYC.

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12/19/2017

2018 Travel Dates


Ok, guys.... the verdict is in....... my 2018 Travel is as follows:
The first few months of 2018 are mostly going to be around home..... which means I can make a trip to Chicago almost anytime as long as my work schedule allows.... with the exception of Jan 13-15 when I'm entertaining an opponent I've been talking with for months. So here's the rest of the dates:

May 18-21: NYC
Sept 21-24: Michigan (city TBD)

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12/13/2017

2018 Travel


My 2018 Travel will soon be finalized. I feel like the Olympic Committee trying to choose a host city. So here are the cities/states I will be visiting:

-NYC
-Michigan
-Chicago (can do almost any time with enough notice)

The trips to Michigan and NYC will soon be finalized, around Christmas and will be released around that time. Keep in mind these are extremely short trips, only 4 days long..... so if I don't get to everyone I want to, don't feel bad. Trips to the Chicago area are on request, but we are at the mercy of my work schedule.
I regret that California, Arizona, Minnesota, and Florida didn't make the cut. However, if you live in these states and are able to make a trip over here, I'd be more than willing to meet up. Please keep in mind that I can't host, so we will need to get a hotel, and I do require at least 3 weeks notice because of work.

Thanks again, guys!

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10/03/2017

NYC Jobber Selections Nearly Complete


With my trip to NYC just a few days away (can't wait) I'm nearing the end of my selection process to find my victims for the trip. I won't name any profile names, but the lucky victims will be notified soon. I already have one guy confirmed for this Saturday morning. Trying to nail down a guy for Friday night and Saturday afternoon. Stay Tuned! Man, I wish this trip was longer but it's not!

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9/14/2017

Don't Leave me hanging!


This is one of my biggest pet peeves: guys leaving me hanging! I have been left hanging quite a bit lately! Some guys seem interested in a match, and then they don't talk to me for months on end. There was one guy from another website (Global Fight) from the UK. He strung me along for months. I sent him several messages over the course of that time. He never replied until one day, and in that reply he essentially told me to Fuck Off! I've also had guys block me for no reason or notice.
The points:
1. If you have a problem with me, take it up with me, don't just block me without notice or a reason. Let's talk about it!
2. Don't string me along for months pretending to be interested and don't contact me. I know stuff happens, but even a little not is appreciated!

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8/31/2017

I'm Autistic


OK, guys, I've decided that enough is enough and it's time for me to reveal something about myself that I have only told a few others on this site:
I am Autistic.
Back in 2003 I was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, a high functioning form of Autism.
If you want to know more about this disorder, you can look it up on Wikipedia or Google it

However, there are a few things you need to know about me related to this disorder:
My "Obsessions" are:
-Commercial aircraft
-Creative writing
-Work
One thing that could be a challenge for other people to handle:
I can sometimes get nervous and call, IM or message people multiple times in one day. I am not TRYING to push people away intentionally. I'm slowly getting better at this.
Also, whenever someone decides to "leave" me (like block me or stops responding to my messages for months on end, it HURTS. It takes a while for me to recover from it, but I do eventually.

ok. I've said my piece, now it's up to you guys. I realize I might lose some buddies and possible matches over this, but at least now my conscious is clear and I've come clean. Although I wish I would've done this a LONG time ago.

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8/20/2017

Back Into Action!


Ok, guys! I'm officially back in action and ready to go! Let's make this happen! I'm especially looking for guys to mess around with (including guys who wanna cheat on their spouse!)

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8/05/2017

Back Into Action Soon!


Ok, guys, since the MRI came back (pretty much) clear, that means I will be ready to return to action soon! Starting Tuesday, August 15th, I will be available to start talking about hooking up! Looking forward to getting back into action!

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7/29/2017

Coming to NY


Hey guys! For a very brief time (Oct 6-8- Arriving on Oct 6 and departing on Oct. 8) I will be in NYC. I have one guy lined up so far. I need to make the most of my time there so anybody that can meet up relatively soon after I get into the hotel (around 4pm on Friday Oct. 6.... or relatively early in the day on Oct. 7 would be awesome!) Wish I had more time, but I don't.

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7/19/2017

MRI Results


The good news is... there's no tears or strains or sprains or anything like that. So I will not need any surgery. I got a cortisone shot this morning, so that should take care of the pain for a while. HOWEVER, as a precaution, I will be putting a hold on real-time wrestling activities until the fall. Sorry to disappoint everybody.

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7/10/2017

Medical Update


Had my MRI this morning (7/10/17). Was in the tube for almost an hour. Now we play the waiting game for the results. Results should be coming from the Orthopedic Specialist's office in 9 days. However, I am not holding my breath that it will be good news. I anticipate needing surgery, and a long recovery period. Like I said,.... official results coming in 9 days. Stay Tuned!

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