A little May 2018 update, at the request of my partner I have to put wrestling on hold for a bit of time. That means that I cannot accept new challenges for now but please keep in touch if you are interested and as soon as I have the green light to resume fights then I will get back in touch with you. I apologise to those with whom I had scheduled a match but marriage must come first!

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Last edited on 5/02/2018 8:48 AM by kimmetje
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Fred tls (31 bronze) 24 days ago

Wish you à happy marriage, dear fellow wrestler..
Waiting for you back on the matts...

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kimmetje (47 bronze) 23 days ago

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Hope it won't be too long ;) He would like the digest the news of my wrestling first and then I hope I can restart - possibly with new rules though!

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croydonscot (16 gold) 24 days ago

Wrestling is fun, but the one's we hold dear to us, friends, family and one's partner should always be the priority, Hope to keep in touch with you and hope you return to wrestling one day in the near future x

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kimmetje (47 bronze) 23 days ago

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Absolutely!! We have so much to talk about still, I am curious what will happen in the coming months to you and the country for that matter!

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Spruceman (58 platinum) 24 days ago

Whatever it is, my friend, I hope everything resolves to everyone's best interests and satisfaction – aka win, win. Best wishes [wasn't aware that 'challenge' thing here even was functional].

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kimmetje (47 bronze) 23 days ago

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Me too! To be honest, he took the discovery far better than I anticipated, and now that it's out in the open I can also be more honest which is not a bad thing at all. We'll see how it pans out, it looks like as just a sport it should be possible, the question is how far he allows me to continue the sex fetish part I love so much.

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Rookie (36 platinum) 24 days ago

All the best for you, my friend. We stay in contact, even if it takes a little longer. Thomas

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kimmetje (47 bronze) 23 days ago

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You're the best, I hope that fate will allow our wrestling paths to cross!!

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Vanman (79 bronze) 24 days ago

Your partner is THE most important person to you and you must do what is best for both of you.

That is a rule that we all should abide by.

Hope to see you on the mats again soon, but I fully understand the thought process.

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kimmetje (47 bronze) 23 days ago

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You are absolutely right about that and he is a very good man at that, so I want to do whatever makes him happy and comfortable in our relationship. It's worked too long to mess it up!

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Spruceman (58 platinum) 23 days ago

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any prospects of introducing him to some wrestling (even very light) keeping it below a threatening erotic level? If he sees it as sport and even guys merely having a sporting fun time, it could be a cool thing to do. .

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kimmetje (47 bronze) 10 days ago

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Yeah you're right Spruce, I think that's maybe in the pipelines, though my concerns are that I am not sure I'd want to wrestle my husband.... the dynamics are so unique!

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surrey71 (28 gold) 24 days ago

Reading your blogs in the past, it would seem yourvwtestling turned very erotic. Your husband IS THE ONLY priority in your life.... marriage is sacred, wrestling should be just a hobby.
Getting the balance and priorities isn’t always easy but I wish yountgr very best.

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kimmetje (47 bronze) 23 days ago

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You are right on all fronts ;) - I think I'm going to have to rebalance it into a more sports pursuit first and then take it from there! Although it won't be easy I did take a liking to the other version! - Thanks for commenting!!

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surrey71 (28 gold) 22 days ago

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Your husband is your priority overall!
Wrestling as a sport & hobby shouldn’t be a problem - even naked, as long as nothing else happens!
When I was with my partner, he understood my enjoyment of it and never stopped me - just insisted that nothing else went on.
Maybe that’s the path you should follow for a while, until you both agree that things are allowed to happen!
But I wish you the best - maybe once your back wrestling, visit U.K. and see if you can dominate us Brits - there’s a challenge for you :-)

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roy65 (63 platinum) 24 days ago

Alles Gute für dich und deine Ehe!!
Wir bleiben in Kontakt. Irgendwann treffen wir uns, darauf freue ich mich sehr.
Roy

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kimmetje (47 bronze) 23 days ago

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Here's hoping for it! :) - Or maybe at least watch you kick someone else's ass? ;)

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Merseywrestle (67 platinum) 24 days ago

Sorry to hear you won't be wrestling for a while but sometimes that had to take a back seat to the most important people in your life. Till your back slamming guys to the mat, take care bud.

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kimmetje (47 bronze) 23 days ago

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Hehe, that's right man, I've still got some aggression to take out on people ;) - I'll try and work it through and hope to be back in full action sooner than later!

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bcgrapple (5 gold) 24 days ago

Congrats on the marriage....best wishes to my wrestling buddy and your partner.

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kimmetje (47 bronze) 23 days ago

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Thanks we're together over a year now as husbands, but as a couple over 14 years... I guess the wrestling prompted a reassessment of our semi-open relationship... I hope that wrestling will be allowed back in, but its worth being patient about it!

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Fred tls (31 bronze) 22 days ago

All those comments sound positive Kim
It is indeed a good opportunity to re-assess priorities in your life.
As we say in french "let us give Time to the time"
I'm sure you both will find a way forward in order to strenght your couple and let you have sport and fun within limits agreed by both of you...
All the best and keep us on touch!
Thanks for this blog and your communication on the matter !

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bcgrapple (5 gold) 10 days ago

We will all be here ready to take you on bud...whenever your ready...no worries take care of your relationship and stuff you need to do. We arent going anyplace

Sean

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