Is there any straight people who just want to use this as sport

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Spruceman (60 platinum) 9 days ago

If I were averse to skin-to-skin contact with another man, I'd be putting up a pic adorned in a singlet, or seeking my action in gi wrestling or a related gi sport, or posting in a 'fighting in street clothes' group. I like doing the full spectrum from nada to competing wearing business suits or winter parkas. All degrees of vestments can be fun, interesting, competitive. As for sex, I (and probably most others on the site) can take it or leave it – and let a would-be opponent know that – As for me, he would have to take the initiative so he'd never need feel sexual harassment. (especially not sporting the looks of a porn star) If anyone fears accident contact with the crotch, I recommend wearing a cup

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Steeleyes (44 platinum) 12 days ago

The gentlemen has told Fightfinder.net that he doesnt want to wrestle me.Odd as we have never been in contact to my knowledge.Check my profile,it does not say I am gay.I dont classify me ,you or anyone else as to their leanings.Its a shame you dont try a meet as they are very friendly events,with anyone made welcome.Good Luck to you sir

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Boxforex (14) 12 days ago

There’s a great line from the film Tango & Cash in which Stallone & Kurt Russell are naked in a shower together and Russell bends down and Stallone all macho says ‘ugh, what are you doin?’ To which Russell stands up again and says ‘ SOAP, and don’t flatter yourself!’ Showing him the bar of soap. It serves to show how insecure some folk are with their masculinity and I think the line ‘don’t flatter yourself’ equally applies here in respect of your offensive comment mister straight guy! Ps, I wouldn’t even buy you a pint in a straight pub, and certainly not in a gay pub either lol

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Kusthipatu (3 ) 14 days ago

Mr.Surrey71 , i would like to talk to u.

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celtwrestle (41 gold) 14 days ago

This gets all the more complex by the request in the profile for women to watch him fight too. Will Helen of Troy be one of them, Trojan?
(Don’t fret or get upset dude, only kidding).

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Spruceman (60 platinum) 15 days ago

That line from Hamlet about 'doth protest too much' comes to mind.

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surrey71 (27 platinum) 26 days ago

Second all the comments, I wrestle for the competitive side of things, not for sex or any foreplay!
Maybe if you paid attention to your profile and set your weight correctly instead of wanting to meet just straight men - you’d get more attention.
I have to say you’re in denial, most straight men (or claim to be) have at least a slight bisexual side that wants them to be in such close proximity to another man in a form of battle that is generally required to wear as little clothing as a pair of Speedo’s!

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Andy Bluebear (5 ) 27 days ago

Be careful what you wish for...I imagine more than a few of the gay men on here could probbaly kick his ass in a real match...

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Vanman (84 ) 27 days ago

So ONLY GAY men want to wrestle you.

How do you explain my challenge to you in June 2017? It read "straight bloke Vs straight bloke?"

You didn't even bother to reply with a no.

Turn up at a meet in Manchester some time and find out how good the guys are. Next one is early October looking at the events page.

I'm sure you're a nice guy but being so judgemental does you no favours.

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Steeleyes (44 platinum) 12 days ago

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Correction Vanman.Next Manchester Meet is 22 Sept at Pippas.See details on Fightfinder.net.Cheers

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justsomeguy (1 ) 27 days ago

Hmm...
I'm on this site to wrestle. That's it.

My coach is straight. He doesn't care. Many men I want to wrestle are straight. They don't care. My best mate is straight. He doesn't care. Neither does his wife. The guys in my band are straight. They don't care. My doctor is straight. He doesn't care. In fact, he has put his hands in places I wouldn't let other people near.

Do you want to do hetero things to every woman you encounter?
And why would you choose a handle that is a brand of condom if you aren't implying that you want a sexual encounter?
Rethink your views about people, please.

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synxiec (34) 26 days ago

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I Enjoy This Particular Post.

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chicagowrestbox (19 silver) 27 days ago

Then why are you posed in a very girly-looking thong in all of your profile pics? You're not projecting a very traditional masculine image for someone who is supposedly "straight". This is a majority (as in 95% or more) gay site and you no doubt already know this, so don't play as if you're surprised. Plus, don't flatter yourself that anyone here is "getting off" on you.

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justsomeguy (1 ) 27 days ago

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Is the percentage really that high? In the Philadelphia area I'm finding it to be 50:50. I'm not really keeping count.
I might just be looking at the wrong profiles. Hehe

Nonetheless, I am not having any problems finding straight wrestlers. But I'm not worrying about anyone's sexual orientation though.

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ruffnhard (62) 27 days ago

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Totally agree with you Chicago, particularly interested why he would post the close up pic of the trunks, seems he wants to focus attention there!

Plus, I'm gay and wrestle extremely competitively as a sport most of the time... news flash, gay guys don't find every guy they set eyes on attractive!

Being here 1.7 years and 0 opponents says it all I think!

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Trojan1980 (0) 27 days ago

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Yes because it's all gay men what want to wrestle me An I don't want to wrestle gay men

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Ironbull (108 platinum) 15 days ago

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Dear Trojan

I am a gay man. That means that in a consenting relationship or encounter I might have sex someone who might happen to be male.

On the rare occasions when a woman comes on to me I explain that I am gay and taken but treat her interest with sensitivity and gratitude. Strangely I have never felt the need to do more because two adults are usually able to move forward on the basis of mutual respect.

You don;t want to meet gays because, perhaps, you feel that your masculinity might be threatened. That does gay men a grave injustice because no one on this site is unable to take no for an answer. It implies that your own masculinity is very fragile if you fear for your own identity simply because another human being might be attracted to you.

So here's my theory about you. You are a homosexual man who plays out a fantasy. Homophobia is your fetish. It gets you off to proclaim these sentiments. You wear a parody of what you think are "straight" attitudes rather like Freddy Mercury wore that very ridiculous leather cap .

Unfortunately for you, this is a fight site and, among our members (gay and hetero) are some very tough and very skilled fighters; experienced submission grapplers, black belts, competitive boxers and some who are just borderline nutters who like to smash faces.

So, now you have proclaimed, by implication, that you look down on gay men as being somehow less masculine than you. You have been here for over 18 months and met no one. Come to a meet. I am sure you'll get a lot of challenges. Let's see just how tough you are.

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tupsi (46 silver) 27 days ago

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And what's the problem with wrestling gay men? I had sexual encounters with some of my past opponents, but with most nothing happened. The simple truth is gay men are not automatically attracted to every other man. It's just the same as heterosexual men are not automatically attracted to every woman on earth.

Also you could state before the match what you want to happen or in your case what you don't want to happen. I haven't met a guy on here so far who didn't respect boundaries.

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chicagowrestbox (19 silver) 27 days ago

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Then just shut up and get off the site.

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Tynesider (78) 27 days ago

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I second that comment.

If it has taken you 1.7 years to realise there are gay men on here you must in a slow learner. It is a ridiculous post to raise and has resulted in you making yourself appear to be a very silly boy.

Of course you may be getting the reaction that you sought.
No offence...

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Trojan1980 (0) 28 days ago

Looking to have competitive matches as sport not as something for all you gay lads to get off on it's called meetfighters not meet gays

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Wrestlercdmx (0 bronze) 27 days ago

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Would you fight with or without the thong?

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twisterman (29) 27 days ago

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So your "straight" and just wanna wrestle... so that's why you come to a predominantly gay site nicknamed after a condom posing in a thong huh? GTFO man

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