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Always answering private messages(Contestando siempre mensajes privados).


I think everyone here has to have that education.
If 1 person writes us we are obliged to answer even if the site does not force us to do it but if we have a moral and correct education of our parents we must do it.

Espanish(Creo que todos aqui tenemos que tener esa educacion.
Si 1 persona nos escribe estamos obligados a contestar aunque el sitio no nos obligue a hacerlo pero si tenemos una educacion moral y correcta de nuestros padres debemos hacerlo.)

We must behave as we like people to behave with us.
If we tell lies to others then we like that people lie to us all the time and here in my humble opinion there should be no lies of any kind.

Espanish(Debemos comportarnos como nos gusta que la gente se comporte con nosotros.
Si decimos mentiras a los demas entonces nos gusta que la gente nos mienta todo el tiempo y aqui en mi humilde opinion no debe de haber mentiras de ningun tipo).

It helps us to improve and grow as human beings to be honest with others all the time. Because our parents are supposed to have taught us to be honest and to tell the truth all the time because that is something that is taught from generation to generation.
Espanish(Nos ayuda a mejorar y crecer como seres humanos el ser honestos con los demas todo el tiempo. Porque se supone que nuestros padres nos enseñaron a ser honestos y decir la verdad todo el tiempo porque eso es algo que se enseña de generacion en generacion. )

It is very easy to say the following:

 I do not want to fight with you !, I do not like your person or your way of being or behaving with others!
I'm not interested in meeting you! I do not have money to travel and stay in your city !. I do not want to have sex with you! You disappointed me! You're not my type of man! I do not like the way and way you want us to fight! I do not like your attitude !, I do not like your physique!, I do not like your face!, I'm disgusted by your photos !, I do not like your body !, Do not send me private messages please! , I'm not interested in you nor in going to meet you !, I feel harassed by you!, Stay away from me please !, I do not like you!, I hate you!, Do not write me anymore please Goodbye !, I do not have a vacation right now !, I can not travel now!, You are nobody to demand that I fight with you !, I do not have money !, I do not want to give you my phone number because it is private! We will only be friends !, I'm only interested in friendship !, I'm just looking for sex !, I do not want a stable and lasting relationship now !, I do not want to be your partner !, I never want to have a relationship with you please understand that!.
Espanish(Es muy facil decir lo siguiente:

!No quiero luchar contigo!, !No me gusta tu persona ni tu forma de ser ni de comportarte con los demas!
!No estoy interesado en conocerte! !No tengo dinero para viajar y quedarme en tu ciudad!. !No quiero tener sexo contigo!, !Me decepcionaste!, !No eres mi tipo de hombre! !No me gusta la forma y manera en la que quieres que luchemos! !no me gusta tu actitud!, !No me gusta tu fisico!, !No me gusta tu cara!, !Me dan asco tus fotos!, !No me gusta tu cuerpo!, !Ya no me mandes mensajes privados por favor!, !no estoy interesado en ti ni tampoco en ir a conocerte!, !me siento acosado por ti!, !Alejate de mi por favor!, !no me gustas!, !Te odio!, !no me escribas mas por favor Adios!, !No tengo vacaciones ahora mismo!, !no puedo viajar ahora!, !No eres nadie para exigirme que luche contigo!, !No tengo dinero!, !no te quiero dar mi numero de telefono porque es privado! !Solo seremos amigos!, !solo me interesa amistad!, !Solo busco sexo!, !no quiero una relacion estable y duradera ahora!, !no quiero ser tu pareja!, !yo nunca quiero tener una relacion contigo por favor entiendelo!.)

I know that the truth is hard but it helps us to realize the reality. That we are not gold coin to please everyone well or for everyone to love us and love us when we want.

It is better to take a few seconds or minutes writing explaining to the person in a good way because you do not want to be in communication or keep talking with her or because you do not want to fight or have sex or travel to your country or city where they live.
Espanish(Se que la verdad es dura pero nos ayuda a darnos cuenta de la realidad. Que no somos moneda de oro para agradarle bien a todos ni para que todos nos quieran y nos amen cuando queremos.

Es mejor tomarse unos segundos o minutos escribiendole explicandole a la persona de buena manera porque no quieres estar en comunicacion o seguir platicando con ella o bien porque ya no quieres luchar ni tener sexo ni tampoco viajar a su pais o ciudad donde vive.)
ignore is only a rude and detestable act of a person who has never been telling the truth in all his life. That only tells the truth when forced to say it.

But telling the truth is better because even though it is hard it helps you not to form fantasies or to make yourself illusions of something that you know well that never happened.

It is better to say our opinion and feel honestly that the other person forms a fantasy of something that we are not and then ends with a broken heart and crying all day because his dream and illusion collapsed into a thousand pieces.
Espanish(ignorar solo es un acto grosero y detestable de una persona que jamas ha estado diciendo la verdad en toda su vida. Que solo dice la verdad cuando se ve forzado a decirla.

Pero decir la verdad es mejor porque aunque sea dura te ayuda a no formarte fantasias ni a hacerte ilusiones de algo que tu sabes bien que no pasara nunca.

Es mejor decir nuestra opinion y sentir de forma honesta a que la otra persona se forme una fantasia de algo que no somos y despues termine con el corazon destrozado y llorando todo el dia porque su sueño e ilusion se derrumbo en mil pedazos.)

My recommendation guys from this place is that no matter how hard the truth is, always write it down in your opinions. That they do not leave in seen the messages of anybody and that better they say their feeling to him, their opinion. Do not be afraid to be yourself with that person. Because some of us have the error of judging and idealizing people ahead of time without knowing them in person. It is better to talk well, get to know people live and enjoy that moment as hard as you can.

Always tell the truth. Learn to not leave in sight any message they receive and learn to always tell who is writing their feelings and opinion about it. If you can travel or not. Whether or not they can do what they are asked. It is very easy to answer the messages because we will never know if by not responding to that person because of disappointment he could even commit suicide by taking his own life when that could have been prevented from telling the truth.
Espanish(Mi recomendacion chicos de este lugar es que por mas dura que sea la verdad siempre escribanla en sus opiniones. Que no dejen en visto los mensajes de nadie y que mejor le digan su sentir, su opinion. Que no tengan miedo de ser ustedes mismos con esa persona. Porque algunos tenemos el error de juzgar e idealizar a las personas antes de tiempo sin conocerlas en persona. Es mejor platicar bien, conocer a la gente en vivo y disfrutar ese momento lo mas intenso que se pueda.

Digan siempre la verdad. Aprendan a no dejar en visto ningun mensaje que reciban y aprendan a decirle siempre a quien les esta escribiendo su sentir y opinion al respecto. Si pueden viajar o no. Si pueden o no hacer lo que les pregunta. Es bien sencillo responder los mensajes porque nunca sabremos si por no responderle nosotros esa persona por desilucion pueda incluso llegar a suicidarse quitandose la vida cuando eso pudo haberse evitado de nosotros haber dicho la verdad. )

God bless you(Dios los bendiga)
Always respond the messages you received(Siempre respondan los mensajes que reciben)
Dont be afraid for tell the truth to the other guy that is writting you(No tengan temor de decirle la verdad al chico que les esta escribiendo).

Atte. Alex. De. La. Cruz. Sotelo

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Last edited on 8/02/2018 1:39 AM by alejandro2989
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Comments (4)

BamaJDon41 (0 gold) 8/02/2018 3:26 AM

Generally speaking, the internet is like kids at school. The popular kids get lots of messages and will respond with as much thought, if any, as they so choose. The less popular kids get far fewer messages and will have the time to give those messages much more attention. We would like everyone to behave as we would behave but some people just don't value that behavior.

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justsomeguy (1 ) 8/02/2018 4:30 AM

Amen brother!

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Matjock (80 platinum) 8/02/2018 1:46 PM

Thanks so much for taking the time to write this and for putting it so eloquently. It's a matter of simple courtesy. I've gotten responses like, "I'm into younger guys"; "Not interested", and even "No". I would rather get that than no response at all.

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tote (27) 8/04/2018 3:32 AM

La comunicación es mucho mas que educación, es la manera con la cual llegamos a entendernos con otros. Por eso importa decir lo que pensamos, lo que nos gusta y lo que no nos gusta de los otros. Solo así se forjan amistades reales y duraderas.
Communication goes farther than a good education. It's the tool we use to understand each other. That's why it's important to say what we think, what we like and dislike from the others. Only this way we can develope a real and lasting friendship.

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