Dinner? Really? Sounds great
I keep reading Recommendations where guys go out for lunch or dinner after a match. Never has happened in my life, other than a small group gathering a few times over the years.. Wonder how common the one-on-one thing is? Really seems like a nice thing to do to make interactions more meaningful, as we don't live by the action on the mats alone – and something nice to encourage.
I hope it is not merely something which is put in the recommendation merely to add "color" to making the guy appear all the greater? Same goes for the purported hanging around after the match: That would be cool as well. In the meantime, am waiting for an opponent to happen by, have a hot match, and wander over to a neighborhood place to eat afterwards – at least you could hang out here and we order food to be delivered.
Looking forward to finding men who are interested beyond the match itself and the occasional concurrent or subsequent all-to-rare "benefits"