3rd Month on Meetfighters
My first Blog was about my initial impressions
Of meetfighters, as I was a new member at the time.
It was very exciting to join this site and seek the
Opportunity to bond with my brothers.During my excitement I made some bad decisions out of passion instead of common sense.
Adm did message me a list of the rules of the road.
One of the big ones was to avoid arranging matches that are out of your Town and state.
It's risky for a number of reasons.
I found out the hard way.
I couldn't help myself because there is a delima.
It may be real or imagined on my part.
The perfect opponents Seem to be located out
Of town, and I don't mean a suburb or neighboring
State. They are halfway across the country.
I live in Chicago. A big city. Not a rural town.
You would think that there would be an abundance of opponents here. Not.
So far I'v only had one match. Yes I sent out
at least 2 dozen request that went nowhere.
Mostly because of the reality of the distance.
What boggles my mind is that I see many
Profiles of guys that id have a session with
In a heartbeat.
Though I look at their profile which may look good,
and notice that they've been on the site for months
and some for a few years With 0 opponents and 0
Does that make us losers or are we just being Picky?
Finally I'd like to add.
Please don't respond to someone who's interested
In having a match with you if you have no intention
Or interest in them.
It's a waist of your time and theirs.
Don't even bother to respond at all.
You can also just say no.
Saying no is less painful than leading
Them on to think they're going to have
an exciting match.